If you organise conferences, we need to talk.
If you have invited me as a speaker to your conference, and I am the only female or ethnic minority speaker, and for some reason I have to pull out, it is not my responsibility to find you another BME woman.
Do not make me feel guilty for screwing up your (already abysmal) gender ratio or panel diversity. Have you considered getting, heaven forbid, more than one woman or minority to speak?
This has happened to me more than 3 times now, and I am tired of it.… Conference diversity is your responsibility, not mine